#BLACKLIVESMATTER

As I’ve made clear in previous posts, and in the title of the blog itself, I’m no rocket scientist. I am Joe Average.

I have the same 24 hours as everyone else each day, and a finite amount of time, energy, money and mental bandwidth.

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I do my best with the resources I’ve got to:

  • educate myself to develop the mindset and habits that will help me achieve my goals
  • exercise and eat a healthy diet on a daily basis (and not be a burden on my family or the NHS) for as many years as possible
  • be kind to people and where I can’t quite manage that, at least be respectful and listen
  • help other people, encourage and support them to achieve their goals, and serve them as best I can (that is my real job, my purpose in life)…starting first and foremost with my family

I feel quite sure about the above, I am committed now and have been for many years. Falling short of acting on those four things on a daily basis would cause me to feel guilt, shame and ultimately feel “less than”.

I can’t see myself ever joining a Pride march, or BLM protest, or adopting a unicorn…not because I don’t see their plight as serious or important, but either because a) I don’t believe in their strategies to implement change or b) there are other causes more important to me that I choose to invest my limited resources in.

I will never buy a piano with elephant tusk keys, but my decision to send £2 a month to Cancer Research UK (subtle virtue signal) instead of the WWF won’t cause me to lose sleep.

Questions Not Conspiracies

Black Lives Matter. More? Too? This needs a qualifier. Otherwise isn’t it just common bloody sense?

Why did black lives not matter enough to protest before George Floyd?

Why did black lives not matter enough to protest about the numerous black on black stabbings and shootings year after year in the UK? Outcry about the tiny leak in the side of the boat after you’ve hit an iceberg makes no sense to me.

All Lives Matter. Why is that such a trigger, when again, that statement seems like good sense?

Has corona virus suddenly disappeared? If not, then as a member of the BAME community is it wise to be attending a mass gathering (the protests) during a global pandemic that is disproportionately affecting your community?

So in an effort to educate myself, initially I do what everyone else with no time to read an actual book does. I surf the web.

So much violence, lawlessness, hate and anger. But then, I come across Candace Owens.

WOW! Apart from being an incredibly attractive, confident and articulate young black woman, the content of most of what she said about BLM and outrage culture in general just resonated with me. She is living proof that coming from the projects and having family members in prison is no excuse, that there are no limits for those who are willing to work hard.

I’m still not convinced about Trump, and the Rogan interview showed her to be lacking on the topic of climate change – but I was looking for a black voice on racism and the current situation. She is not alone…but she is definitely not every black person’s, or white progressive’s cup of tea!

Deep Dive Conclusions

  • Victim culture sucks – whatever happened to “empowerment”? Choose a decent label if you HAVE to have one
  • Outrage culture sucks – stop being so sthen-sthe-tive
  • Cancel culture sucks – people make mistakes, words and behaviours taken out of situational or temporal context seem far worse than they actually are
  • The media edits everything to manipulate its consumers – be a selective and sceptical consumer, and consume less
  • The Left sucks – I’m all for freedom and equality, but there has to be some responsibility, duty and order (I’m not so keen on the right either though)
  • Black on black crime is a MUCH bigger problem (statistically) than white on black – that’s in no way pretending that there is no white on black crime, or police harassment, etc. But the black community has lost far more members through stabbings and shootings by other black people than from police brutality
  • Public outcry about racism seems to coincide with election cycles in the US
  • Welfare policies have hurt the black community more than helped them – again, going by the numbers
  • Trump might be a good guy underneath it all and misrepresented in the media…and his administration has done more for black people than any other since Abraham Lincoln? Maybe?
  • I have no control over my ancestor’s actions – no guilt required

It makes absolutely no sense to me to intentionally treat someone unkindly or unfairly because of their skin colour, religion, sexual orientation or gender. None. A natural reaction to an individual being unkind to you is to retaliate, but not to take it out of every person who fits the same description. That’s ridiculous. Moronic.

Whatever your colour or other group identity, I’m not the biggest fan of angry or aggressive people, drill music, welfare spongers, deadbeat or absent fathers, lawlessness, gang culture, hard drugs and the violence that accompanies the selling of them. It’s a prejudice. I don’t see that as a problem until it leads to me discriminating.

If someone wants to say, “well that racist because that’s MY culture,” my immediate thought would be, “you really want to claim ownership to THAT? Good luck with that.” I am guilty of discriminating against those behaviours mentioned above, because I don’t want to assist or perpetuate them. I don’t buy that music, I don’t associate with perpetually angry or aggressive people. I’m not going to actively discriminate – my resources are better invested elsewhere – but I won’t help those attitudes and behaviours to flourish.

Learning is a lifelong process, so I’m going to keep on reading, watching and listening. I have started listening to Robin Diangelo’s book, “White Privilege” and I’ve pre-ordered Candance Owens’s book, “Blackout”. Like Bruce Lee’s philosophy of Jeet Kune Do, learn what you can from every martial art, keep what is useful and discard what is useless – I’m looking for what works. Works = improves the situation. Improve = positive, measurable change in the chosen area of focus e.g. unemployment, murder rates, academic achievement.

So I will do my best to support the BLM movement, while believing that All Lives Matters, be an ally without being a white saviour, use my white privilege to benefit all without feeling guilty for something that’s completely out of my control – being white and history. I will not be silent in the face of racism…so in reality, after learning all of this, will my actions be any different to the last 39 years?

Signing off for now. Peace and love to you all. Stay safe, and buckle up for the second wave!!! And I’ll leave you with this hilarious sketch:

Facebook not playing on here for some reason…not the full compilation, but google “famalam gang wars” hilarious!!!

#LONDONREALARMY

I may be asked to take this down, so read it quickly!!!

Some of my favourite ways to p…put off what I should be doing (making a committed effort not to use the “p” word) include:

Reading – but technically, you can’t be a writer if you’re not a reader, so that’s not a problem until it becomes excessive. Anyway, I use that age-old time-hack of listening to audiobooks while I’m commuting or training.

Films/TV – guilty, but I’ve limited this to the TV I watch with my wife, or my kids. I rarely watch TV on my own unless I’m also running on a treadmill, cycling using my turbo with Zwift.

Podcasts/Vlogs – and these may be my biggest time sink. There’s nothing better to ease the pain of hours on a treadmill or bike than listening to/watching Joe Rogan, Tim Ferris, Jocko Willink, Sam Harriss, Peter Attia, Russell Brand, Rich Roll, Floris Gierman, Tom Bilyeu and of course, London Real.

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I won’t tell you that I watch every episode – there are a lot of repeat guests on each show – but there are some episodes that I’ve watched more than once (Elon Musk getting stoned!?! WTF! James Wilks – Black Belt in Forest Plots…LMFAO!), so it balances out!

Why watch or listen to all of these podcasts? Because, I want to be educated not just entertained…although many of them tick both boxes. I won’t waste time going through my critiques of each, none of them are perfectly produced, none of them are perfect hosts, and none of them have 100% quality guests EVERY TIME. But their hit rate is good enough to keep me returning, to hear a variety of different ideas, theories, life hacks and perspectives on life and the world.

I love listening to the debates on diet with Rhonda Patrick, Peter Attia, Tim Noakes to name just a few – and the James Wilks Rogan interview where he is given the opportunity to respond to criticism of his fantastic documentary “The Game Changers” is EPIC!

The podcast episode was great, not because I enjoyed watching Wilks’s thinly veiled aggression, or the other guy squirm and retract his criticism, but because he was given the opportunity to say what he believed to be true and why. He backed up everything he said with evidence – there may be evidence to the contrary – but the fact that studies exist providing support for both sides means that it’s open for debate.

As much as I would love to believe that sugar is good for me and will do me no harm – the scientific evidence (and personal experience…skinny fat mean anything to ya?) points to the contrary. If Tate and Lyle release a study which goes counter to the wealth of other evidence out there, I will do my best to eye that research with scepticism. Promise.

Can you say, “Flat Earth?”

Now I love a good conspiracy theory as much as the next guy, and yet I’m grounded enough to make my own mind up. By “my own mind” I obviously mean what the latest peer-reviewed research that’s not tainted by industry sponsorship says.

So when some nutter tells me the Queen’s a lizard…I take it with a pinch of salt. Same thing with flat-Earthers, moon landings, virgins, be they miraculously pregnant or…well, let’s not even go there. Seriously? Each to their own – no disrespect – maybe it just hasn’t been explained clearly enough to me?

But…

…let’s just take a hypothetical situation.

Person A does something naughty, like stealing person B’s lunch.

Person C says, “Hey, Person B – did you see that? Person A just…”

Before Person C can finish, Person A does everything in his power to:

a) prevent Person C from telling Person B

b) prevent Person B from learning about it any other way.

Well what if we’re all Person B? I f***ing hope not! But what if we are?

I want to believe that “masks don’t work, so there’s no point in wearing them,” and not that “actually they do work to prevent you spreading stuff if you’re asymptomatic, but we haven’t got enough for the NHS so…”.

I want to believe that the people leading us know what they’re doing and that they’re not purely motivated by financial gain or myopic progress. Surely they wouldn’t jeopardise our health? We work (usually) and pay their salaries…we vote for them (or not).

I want to believe (I’d rather be Hank Moody than Fox Mulder though).

Suggestion

Once this whole Covid-19 business is behind us, the medical advisers and political decision makers are going to have a lot to answer for in some cases – worldwide. Some countries more than others, but wherever you look, there are faces and names accountable for those decisions. Just like James Wilks standing by his documentary.

Where are the scientists battling this out with David Icke, point by point. Where is his Joe Rogan episode to come back, point by point, forest plots and all? I think accountability is all that’s lacking here, and the powers that be should sort it out before I lose internet connection because of some lunatic, and I can’t watch any more “Too Hot To Handle”.

Verdict

Eamon Holmes – free-thinker? Definitely not one of the sheep. It’s open minds that get us to the moon or Mars, that discover DNA or the Higgs Boson, evolution or “the growth mindset”. But I suppose like school teachers, policeman, politicians and religious leaders, that free mind is something you should keep to yourself – if you want to keep working. Think what you want, but don’t tell anyone else…just like mast….MASTS, that’s what I was talking about…or getting to anyway!

David Icke – Nutter? Time will tell. If the science checks out, knock your one-from-each-pair-where-do-they-go? socks off . In the meantime, leave the f***ing masts alone!

I love the UK – because unlike China, we do have free speech…I think.

God bless you UK. God bless you Queen Liz.

Peace.